At the beginning, dedicate a significant amount of focused time—to start seeing credible results.
What tends to slow you down or create friction when you are learning something new?
Analyzing takes a lot of time and effort, and it slows me down. Dealing with this long process creates friction. I can learn things quickly, but unfortunately, cannot memorize easily. For me, memorization cannot be a conscious effort; it must happen naturally only through repetition and repeated exposure.
Friction mostly happens in the initial phase of learning a new subject because there is so much to absorb. With French specifically, at the beginning there are many moving parts—grammar, pronunciation, spelling, and vocabulary—that all need to align to a certain degree. I don’t think there are any shortcuts. If we take shortcuts and don’t put in enough effort at the beginning, we risk developing poor technique, pronunciation or grammar difficulties to fix later. The learning process needs to evolve in balance.
But, this could lead to frustrating thoughts such as, “I should be much better at this by now. Why hasn’t it happened yet?”
How do you stay motivated when learning becomes difficult or uncomfortable?
I distance myself for a few days to clear my mind and return to it with a rested perspective. I remind myself that this is a process with ups and downs.
Do you learn better with structure and guidance, or with more freedom and autonomy? Can you give an example?
I need some structure - lectures and a clear document to follow at the beginning. After that, I need freedom. I need my own time to rephrase things, view them from different angles, and work with different materials and practice them.
For example, today’s creative writing session was about a train ride.
I was tired and short on time, so I wrote it in English and translated it with ChatGPT, knowing that it would still be beneficial. I could go back and check how certain phrases and new vocabulary, conjugation are used. I could practice pronunciation by shadowing Google Translate.
Can you describe a moment when something suddenly “clicked” for you? What do you think led to that moment?
Hearing or reading the explanation multiple times, making mistakes, and analyzing those mistakes and asking questions leads to something clicking.
For example, finally after learning and forgetting multiple times, I got that we need to use être as the auxiliary portion of the passé compose of the reflexive verbs.
What habits or routines have had the biggest impact on your progress over time?
I am patient, practice regularly and dedicate focused time to learning. Sometimes I know my brain gets scattered, so I try to avoid that.
I believe that any skill can be learned with enough practice, up to about 80–85%. Natural talent could contribute to achieving another 15–20%.
If you could give one piece of advice to someone trying to learn something new, what would it be?
At the beginning, realign your life to being able to dedicate a significant amount of focused time—at least a solid six months—to start seeing credible results.
— Nur Ungan

